tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post112363986617433925..comments2023-09-10T05:03:15.314-04:00Comments on Bad Monkey No Banana: What Dreams May ComeBonezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07528193979330191817noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-502551208803050932007-08-17T16:43:00.000-04:002007-08-17T16:43:00.000-04:00Being "religious" has nothing to do with true spir...Being "religious" has nothing to do with true spirituality, Jod{i}. At least, that's what I always say. If it's true or not I don't have a clue :) I am amazed at how many people peg me as being a spiritual person and I don't even remotely consider myself to be so. I only strive to be a just and fair soul who wants to leave a legacy of peace and understanding and be remembered ever so briefly as one who made the world even a minuscule mo betta.Bonezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07528193979330191817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-21319594461901989092007-08-16T22:11:00.000-04:002007-08-16T22:11:00.000-04:00He will...I may not be "religious" but I can still...He will...<BR/>I may not be "religious" but I can still hold a faith...He will.Jod{i}https://www.blogger.com/profile/02671216315312938126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-15066458519885094762007-08-16T15:48:00.000-04:002007-08-16T15:48:00.000-04:00Being a few years behind doesn't matter, Jodi. Ch...Being a few years behind doesn't matter, Jodi. Charles is still very much a live in my heart and mind and missed daily. No, what Charles revealed to me about the great beyond hasn't come to me yet. I don't know that it matters because what did come to me was the sense of peace that all is as it should be and that he was no longer suffering. He promised me that if it was possible he would come back to visit me... and I am still waiting because I believe he will keep his word. It may not be until my last dying breath but if it is possible he will be there for me...Bonezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07528193979330191817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-18091578901459000512007-08-16T12:34:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:34:00.000-04:00"not being able to remember what Charles was telli..."not being able to remember what Charles was telling me about the mysteries of the great beyond. I work all day to regain the feelings of peace and love and loss of burden that Charles gave me but have failed miserably. Why can't I remember? Why can't I retain the blissful feelings he brought me?"<BR/><BR/>I know I am a few years behind here...and yet you wrote this so eloquently Tony. Absolutely.<BR/>It came from the heart. <BR/>Has it come to you yet?<BR/>I think its there...and it will spill out on its own accord. And that moment, that one single moment, you will get it.Jod{i}https://www.blogger.com/profile/02671216315312938126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-8253228095102521022007-06-25T05:50:00.000-04:002007-06-25T05:50:00.000-04:00Hollygl, your comments touched me and I was crying...Hollygl, your comments touched me and I was crying too along with Sharon. You tell the story beautifully. Also appropriate is your visit and comment are the day after the 2nd anniversary of Charles' passing. He's still touching lives and spreading love two years beyond. Thank you so much for visiting and commenting.Bonezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07528193979330191817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1559655805700865442007-06-23T18:16:00.000-04:002007-06-23T18:16:00.000-04:00One of my favorite television shows is "Inside the...One of my favorite television shows is "Inside the Actor's Studio"; and one of my favorite episodes had Sharon Stone as the guest.<BR/><BR/>She was talking about her former acting coach, Roy London, with whom she was extremely close. He was suffering from AIDS, and she was at his bedside in the hospital when she said it was like he slowly passed out of his body. Then, she said, she could almost feel his spirit slam back into his body. He opened his eyes and said, "Its so beautiful, Sharon. Its all about love." And then he closed his eyes, and passed away.<BR/><BR/>Sharon Stone started crying while relaying the story, and I found myself deeply moved as well. I know we don't have definitive answers about what its like when we die, but I like to believe that Mr. London's description comes very close.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1124982191108672722005-08-25T11:03:00.000-04:002005-08-25T11:03:00.000-04:00I loved the dreams I had with my loved ones in it....I loved the dreams I had with my loved ones in it. The first was similar to yours - talked a lot and couldn't remember exactly about what. I knew I'd have another dream about my step-father when he passed, and tried to desperately in my dream to get as many answers as I could. Found that the more I tried to get the answers, the faster they slipped away from me.<BR/><BR/>I resolved that the next time it happened, I would stop trying so hard and just accept what I'm offered. You're very lucky you have multiple dreams, so far I've only gotten one visit each ;P<BR/><BR/>(((HUGS)))MGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07173894857911086318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123778370428998572005-08-11T12:39:00.000-04:002005-08-11T12:39:00.000-04:00Sounds like a pretty cool place. I don't know why ...Sounds like a pretty cool place. I don't know why they come to us but just keep listening and enjoying the visit.Grey Bikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06675437777519008583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123766008872528692005-08-11T09:13:00.000-04:002005-08-11T09:13:00.000-04:00You will remember when you're ready Tony. I have f...You will remember when you're ready Tony. I have faith in you. Thank you so much for coming to my blog and leaving your words of comfort. I often think of you and how you are doing after your loss of Charles. Funny, I don't know Charles, but I think of him often....You truly did him justice as you shared about him here. Thanks! <BR/><BR/>Now I'm off to see the monkey video....because I just gotta see it lolol<BR/><BR/>Thanks Tony (((hugs))Cylithria Duboishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01930567430307811554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123717623729569012005-08-10T19:47:00.000-04:002005-08-10T19:47:00.000-04:00Go to 365 Dreams and share your dream if you would...Go to <A HREF="http://dream365.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">365 Dreams</A> and share your dream if you would like. That is very beautifulOle Blue The Heretichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15607608554845566519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123685311253933182005-08-10T10:48:00.000-04:002005-08-10T10:48:00.000-04:00what a beautiful gift. it's like when we create m...what a beautiful gift. <BR/>it's like when we create memories for children. babies don't remember being held by their mothers but they grow up with that innate feeling of love that was passed on. that's what charles is giving you. that soul connection that transcends any little words or other communication that we can know on this level. <BR/><BR/>let go of the physical plane's need to interpret and make sense of it all. we don't have the skills for that here. you are connecting on a soul level, so far beyond what we can process here. <BR/><BR/>trust that he is with you. <BR/>trust that you are learning and healing and growing in the exact ways that you are supposed to. and that he is helping you in this process. he has transition work to do, as well. <BR/>trust the love. again and again.<BR/><BR/>this is truly the most beautiful gift possible.Patriciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05556535711209804501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123678130501792962005-08-10T08:48:00.000-04:002005-08-10T08:48:00.000-04:00Tony, that's so cool that Charles came to see you ...Tony, that's so cool that Charles came to see you in your dreams!<BR/><BR/>As Kitty said, it's not the words but the emotions that we remember. Don't try to analyse what he tells you. Just remember the feeling he gave you. That's probably what he's trying to do in the first place.Eric V.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08856492122640401893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123677239772765212005-08-10T08:33:00.001-04:002005-08-10T08:33:00.001-04:00Do you think you could hold onto the extreme bliss...Do you think you could hold onto the extreme bliss that you encounter on another consciousness level when you try to bring it back to this sad human form? It isn't really possible to cross over the layers of consciousness with those strong emotions - not all of them - but, you are left with the residue that reminds you of how intense the feelings were.<BR/><BR/>Whenever I am stressed, or have heavy issues weighing on me, my maternal grandmother comes to visit in my dreams. She has done this ever since she passed when I was eight. I 'know' that she gives me sage advice and words of wisdom, and points me in the right direction, but I can never - for the life of me - remember a darned thing she said when I awake. But, it isn't the words, it is the emotions, that being with her evoke. Whether it is my subconscious using a figure that I idolize to help me through the rough spots, or if she truly is my guardian angel, it doesn't matter - because I can always count on her to be there when I need her.<BR/><BR/>It looks like you'll always be able to count on Charles to be there for you now, too.<BR/><BR/>Don't try to over-analyze it -- or try to hold on too tightly ... that will never work; it will always manage to slip through your fingers when you hold on too tight.<BR/><BR/>Enjoy your moments with him, let your conversations give you peace at the moment they are occurring, and don't try to 'bring-it-with-you,' as everything will flow naturally if you don't try to force it.<BR/><BR/>I wish you peace, my friend!Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17141478652049429583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10312800.post-1123677207638758292005-08-10T08:33:00.000-04:002005-08-10T08:33:00.000-04:00Why don't you ask him tonight?Maybe you're just tr...Why don't you ask him tonight?<BR/><BR/>Maybe you're just trying too hard to recapture those feelings. Give yourself a couple of minutes when you first wake up to lay quietly and breathe, and push the anxious feeling to get back to your dream out of your head.<BR/><BR/>But, oh, what a blessing to have Charles visiting you in this way.VikiBabbleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12585264217900479340noreply@blogger.com